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You Never Lose by Loving.

 It is difficult to love a person, especially when you don't know how to express your feelings.  
Worse still, if you are unsure of the person's feelings, the uncertainty can really tear your heart...
This is a true story that happened.  


 A man came Out of his home toadmire his new truck.  To his puzzlement, his 3-yr-old son was
happily hammering dents into the shiny paint.The man ran to his son, knocked him away, and 
hammered the little boy's hands into a pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he 
rushed his son to the hospital.  Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed
bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands 

 When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently asked,
"Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck, but when are my fingers going togrow back?" 
The father went home and committed suicide!!.  
 Think about the story the next time you see someone spill milk at a dinner table or hear a baby crying.
  Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love.
Trucks can be repaired.  Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't.  
Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. 
People make mistakes.  We are allowed to make mistakes.  But the actions we take while in a
 rage will haunt us forever.  
Pause and ponder.  
Think before you act.
Be patient.
Understand and Love.
You Never Lose by Loving.
~ Author unknown TO Me ~
 Background Music 
 Bruce DeBoer